Child Custody and Parent-time Awards Need to Incorporate More Humility

Many parents (I’d say even most parents) enter family court hoping someone will fix everything. Believing that: the judge will see through the lies. the custody evaluator will identify the…

Continue ReadingChild Custody and Parent-time Awards Need to Incorporate More Humility

Co-Parenting Apps: Useful Tool or Expensive Solution in Search of a Problem?

Parenting apps are now everywhere in modern child custody disputes. Lawyers recommend them. Parenting coordinators recommend them. Guardians ad litem recommend them. Courts sometimes order them. And the companies behind…

Continue ReadingCo-Parenting Apps: Useful Tool or Expensive Solution in Search of a Problem?

When No Good Deed Goes Unpunished in Divorce

Good behavior in a marriage is often the wrong behavior in a divorce action (and vice versa) Divorce changes the rules midstream. That is the part most people don’t see…

Continue ReadingWhen No Good Deed Goes Unpunished in Divorce

The Thing One Rarely Says Out Loud When Divorce Starts

When divorce or a child custody dispute begins, most people think they know what they’re fighting for. The house. The retirement account. The business. Parent-time. Child support. Alimony. Those are…

Continue ReadingThe Thing One Rarely Says Out Loud When Divorce Starts

The Language Barrier of Divorce: Decoding Divorce Jargon

Divorce is hard enough on its own. Add in legal paperwork packed with unfamiliar terms, and it can feel like you’re suddenly expected to speak a completely new language. For…

Continue ReadingThe Language Barrier of Divorce: Decoding Divorce Jargon

Shuttle Mediation: What It Is, and Why Most Divorcing Couples Should Avoid It in Favor of a Better Method

What is shuttle mediation (and yes, you’ll want to know before you go to mediation)? Shuttle mediation is a process where a mediator moves back and forth between two parties…

Continue ReadingShuttle Mediation: What It Is, and Why Most Divorcing Couples Should Avoid It in Favor of a Better Method

Mental Health Professionals: How to Make Good (and honest) Use of Them in Divorce and Child Custody

Many spouses and parents going through a divorce and child custody case may believe there is value in using mental health professionals. This can be true, if you use mental…

Continue ReadingMental Health Professionals: How to Make Good (and honest) Use of Them in Divorce and Child Custody