Why Can’t I Just Submit a Letter as Evidence in Court?

What “Laying Foundation” Actually Means

One of the most common frustrations in Utah divorce cases is this: a party has a letter, email, report, or written statement that feels decisive—and the court refuses to admit it as evidence.

From the litigant’s perspective, that feels arbitrary. The information is relevant. It’s written down. It often comes from someone who sounds credible. So why can’t the judge just read it?

Good question. And the answer is: courts do not decide cases based on information. Courts decide cases based on admissible evidence. And in contested matters, that evidence usually enters the record through live witness testimony.

Documents Are Not Testimony

Most people intuitively treat documents as evidence. In everyday life, that makes sense. In court, it does not.

A document does not testify. A person does.

Documents are exhibits. Exhibits are introduced through testimony. Without a witness, a document is just paper.

This is not a family court quirk. Utah divorce courts are bound by the Utah Rules of Evidence. Judges do not get to relax those rules because a case is emotional or feels informal.

Under Utah Rule of Evidence 801, hearsay is an out-of-court statement offered to prove the truth of what it says. Rule 802 makes hearsay inadmissible unless a specific exception applies. Letters, emails, therapist notes, declarations, and written statements almost always fall squarely within that definition.

The Real Issue Is Fairness

The deeper problem is not paperwork. It’s fairness.

When a party submits a letter, the opposing party loses the right to cross-examine the alleged author. Cross-examination is not a technicality. It is how courts test credibility, perception, bias, exaggeration, and reliability.

A judge cannot ask follow-up questions of a letter.
A judge cannot evaluate tone, hesitation, or certainty.
The opposing party cannot probe how the author knows what he or she claims to know.

Utah courts are not permitted to decide disputed facts based on untested statements.

That Is Why Foundation Matters.

Under Rule 602, a witness must have personal knowledge. Under Rule 901, evidence must be authenticated. A live witness provides both. A standalone letter provides neither.

Why Authentication Exists: Documents Are Easy to Manipulate

Written documents are easier to fabricate or alter than most people realize.

A letter can be drafted by someone other than the named author. Signatures can be copied or digitally inserted. Letterhead can be recreated. Documents can be modified after signing. Without live testimony, a court has no reliable way to determine who actually wrote the document, whether it was altered, or whether it accurately reflects the author’s intent. Authentication rules exist because courts require verification, not assumptions.

Digital communications present even greater challenges. Emails can be forwarded, truncated, or selectively reproduced so context disappears. Headers can be omitted. Threads can be reconstructed. Text message screenshots do not reveal metadata, deleted messages, device information, or whether contact names were manually changed. Images can be cropped, reordered, or altered with minimal effort.

Even when no one is acting in bad faith, screenshots often omit context that materially affects meaning. Tone, timing, and prior exchanges matter.

Authentication exists for this reason. The question is not whether a document looks real. The question is whether the court has reliable proof of who created it, when it was created, and whether it is complete and unaltered.

“But It’s a Sworn Statement”

Affidavits and declarations often confuse people because they look official. They are signed. They are sworn. They feel like testimony.

In contested trials and evidentiary hearings, they are usually still insufficient.

A sworn statement is still an out-of-court statement. Unless the parties stipulate otherwise or a specific rule authorizes written testimony, a court cannot substitute an affidavit for live testimony by the witness when facts are disputed.

Motion practice under Utah Rule of Civil Procedure 7 is not the same thing as a trial. Litigants routinely blur that distinction—to their detriment.

Common Scenarios

This issue arises constantly, such as when:

  • a parent wants to submit a therapist’s letter about custody concerns;
  • a spouse wants to offer an email from a business partner about income; or
  • a party wants the judge to “just read” a custody evaluator’s report without testimony.

Courts resist this not because the information is unimportant, but because the process matters.

If a therapist’s opinion, a business partner’s knowledge, or a custody evaluator’s findings are going to influence custody, they must usually testify and be subject to questioning.

Opinions about parenting, income, credibility, or child welfare are not self-proving. The court must be able to test the foundation of the opinion: What facts were relied on? Were those facts verified? What information was ignored? What assumptions were made? What training and experience qualify the person to draw those conclusions? Could the witness be mistaken? Biased? Inaccurate? Even lying?

Why Cross-Examination Exists

Cross-examination exists to probe accuracy, memory, perception, competence, and credibility. It allows the court to explore inconsistencies, exaggerations, selective reporting, and methodological weaknesses. Those safeguards cannot operate on paper alone. A written report does not answer questions. It does not clarify ambiguities. It does not defend its reasoning under scrutiny.

The legal force of an opinion does not come from the title on the letterhead. It comes from the opportunity to test it in open court.

Stress-Testing the Common Counterarguments

Now let’s address the arguments that come up almost every time.

“But it’s a school record.”

Possibly. But that does not automatically make it admissible.

Some school records may qualify as business records under Rule 803(6), but only if properly authenticated—typically through a custodian of records or a certification that satisfies the rule. Even then, admissibility of the record does not mean every statement within it is admissible. Embedded statements can still be hearsay.

And if the dispute centers on interpretation, credibility, or opinion (for example, a teacher’s conclusions about behavior), testimony may still be required.

“School record” is not a magic phrase. Foundation still matters.

“But it’s a business record.”

Again, maybe. But “business record” is a defined legal term, not a casual label.

To qualify under Utah Rules of Evidence 803(6) requires that:

(6)(A) the record was made at or near the time by — or from information transmitted by — someone with knowledge;

(6)(B) the record was kept in the course of a regularly conducted activity of a business, organization, occupation, or calling, whether or not for profit;

(6)(C) making the record was a regular practice of that activity;

(6)(D) all these conditions are shown by the testimony of the custodian or another qualified witness, or by a certification that complies with Rule 902(11) or (12) or with a statute permitting certification; and

(6)(E) neither the source of information nor the method or circumstances of preparation indicate a lack of trustworthiness.

That usually requires testimony or a proper certification. An email from a coworker does not automatically become a business record just because it was allegedly sent from a company account.

And like school records, statements within business records can contain additional layers of hearsay that require their own exception.

“But the GAL filed it.”

Guardians ad litem file reports. That does not automatically make every statement in the report admissible for its truth.

If the GAL (or a party to the case) is attempting to use statements within a report—especially statements attributed to third parties—the hearsay analysis still applies.

Simply “filing a document with the court” does not transform it into admissible evidence at a hearing or trial.

Procedure still governs.

Conclusion: Build Your Case Around Witnesses, Not Just Documents

If your case depends on what someone else observed, concluded, or believes, you should plan for that person to testify.

If he or she cannot or will not testify, you likely do not have admissible proof.

That reality should shape litigation planning early—not the week before trial.

Preparing witnesses is harder than attaching exhibits. It is slower. It feels riskier. It is also how proof actually works.

Courts are not rejecting letters to be difficult. They are enforcing the rules that make the process fair.

Once litigants understand that evidence lives in witnesses—not in paperwork—many costly mistakes become avoidable.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Can a judge ever “just read it anyway”?
Sometimes in temporary hearings, uncontested matters, or where no one objects. But that is discretionary. If the other party objects in a contested evidentiary setting, the rules apply.

Q: What if the other side doesn’t object?
If no objection is made, hearsay can come in. But you should never build a case around hoping your opponent forgets the rules.

Q: Can I testify about what someone told me?
Generally, no—if you are offering it to prove the truth of what they said. That is hearsay. There are exceptions (which are discussed in other posts), but they are specific and limited.

Q: Why does family court seem more relaxed sometimes?
Temporary hearings may operate with more flexibility. Trials and contested evidentiary hearings do not. Confusing the two leads to preventable mistakes.

Q: What does “laying foundation” actually mean?
It means establishing, through testimony, that the witness has personal knowledge, that the exhibit is authentic, and that the evidence satisfies the applicable rule of admissibility. It is not a formality. It is the gateway.

Admissibility vs. Weight — Not the Same Thing

These two concepts are constantly confused.

Admissibility is a legal gatekeeping question. It asks: Does this evidence satisfy the rules so the court is allowed to consider it at all? If the answer is no, the judge does not evaluate it. The evidence never gets through the door.

Weight is a credibility question. It asks: Assuming the evidence is admitted, how persuasive is it? Once evidence is admitted, the judge decides how much importance to give it. Some testimony is strong. Some is weak. Some is credible. Some is self-serving. That evaluation goes to weight.

Here is the critical distinction:

  • A powerful letter can feel overwhelmingly persuasive in everyday life yet still be completely inadmissible in court.
  • A witness can offer admissible testimony and the judge can decide it deserves very little weight.

Courts must answer the admissibility question first. Only then can they consider weight.

Many litigants argue about how convincing a document is without first asking whether it is admissible. That reverses the order. Persuasiveness does not cure inadmissibility.

If it does not get through the evidentiary gate, the court cannot weigh it at all.

Understanding the difference between admissibility and weight prevents a common mistake: spending enormous energy polishing a document that will never be allowed into evidence.

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