Preparing for a consultation with a divorce lawyer is an important step in understanding your rights and options. To make the most of your meeting, consider bringing the following:
- Provide Relevant Documents
Bring any paperwork related to your legal matter. If you are not sure whether to bring it, BRING IT! It’s far better to bring something that isn’t important and simply not review or discuss it than not to bring a crucial document with you. When in doubt, bring the document with you.
But some documents you can usually count on being worth bringing are a copy (not the original, please) of:
– the petition for divorce that was either served on you or that you (or your current lawyer you may not be happy with) prepared;
– If you are having issues with a prior decree or court order, bring a copy of the decree or court order in question.
– the petition for modification of the divorce decree (either the one served on you or the one you served/filed);
– the motion filed (either by or against you) to enforce a court order, bring a copy of the documents you received; and
– any e-mail or text messages or other communications that may help explain and clarify your situation or problem.
Having these documents on hand during (or better yet, in advance of) your consultation allows the attorney to provide more accurate and tailored guidance.
- Take Notes
Bring a notebook and pen or a tablet, laptop computer, or even your smartphone to take notes during your consultation.
Legal matters can be complex, and it’s easy to forget details. Writing things down ensures you leave with the important information regarding your next steps and options and a way to review them and review and retain a clear understanding of them.
- Questions and an Open Mind
It’s normal to have questions. Write them down beforehand while they’re fresh in your mind and ask them at the consultation. And don’t be afraid to ask new questions, if and as they arise during the consultation.
If you don’t understand something the attorney tells you, say so. Ask for clarification—a good attorney will appreciate your desire to understand your situation fully and accurately.
Additionally, come prepared to hear information you may not expect and may not like. Not every dispute has a legal remedy, and not every dispute has an outcome that’s ideal for you. A good attorney will tell you when a claim lacks merit and when your prospects are not so good, rather than simply telling you what you want to hear.
Maximize the Benefits of Your Initial Consultations
Whether you decide to move forward with legal action or seek a second opinion, being well-prepared in advance of and during your consultation with an attorney helps ensure that your consultation is productive and informative.
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