Hypothetically speaking, would you divorce over adultery, if you have kids?

Not simply because of an affair, no. It is certainly understandable if one desires to divorce a spouse who has committed adultery. The law understands this as well, which is…

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What happens if marriage is abolished, since there are too many divorce rates and cheating affairs?

If that happens, then we will then have taken another step—and a big one—on the road to hell. Although the old joke, “the leading cause of divorce is marriage” may…

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What causes a whole family to abandon an innocent family member?

What would cause a whole family to abandon one family member if they did nothing wrong? Many possibilities, including, but not necessarily limited to: Mental illness. Mass delusion. Holding opinions…

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A Divorce Lawyer Just Gave Incredibly Powerful Marriage Advice and It’s Only 4 Words Long

A Divorce Lawyer Just Gave Incredibly Powerful Marriage Advice and It's Only 4 Words Long (click the link to access the full article) Inc. Magazine by Jessica Stillman

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Is it ever a good idea to postpone a divorce for the ‘children’s sake’?

Ever? Certainly. Always? No. (and remember: though I’m a divorce lawyer, that does not mean I am a raving fan of divorce. I’m not. Rarely does even the “best divorce”…

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What advice do you have for a man who just found out his wife wants to divorce him?

I’m a divorce lawyer, but I would like respond to your question both as a lawyer and as a spouse. First, if learning your wife wants a divorce comes as…

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When did you realize that fighting for your marriage was useless?

When did you realize that fighting for your marriage was useless? Many people ask me questions about “my” divorce. I am not divorced, I never have been, and (God willing),…

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