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If you’re facing divorce in Utah, you are likely confronting more than just emotional challenges—you’re staring down the barrel of a complex legal and financial gun. Whether the issue is alimony, child support, property division, or a prenuptial agreement, the court’s decisions will shape your financial future for years to come. And yet, many people walk into divorce court under-informed, overconfident, deluded, and/or misguided by myths and emotions. Here’s what you need to know if you want to be ready.
Every divorce in Utah—whether contested or amicable—requires both parties to complete a financial declaration. This is not a suggestion; it’s a court-mandated disclosure of income, expenses, assets, debts, and financial needs (See Utah Rules of Civil Procedure, Rule 26.1, and here is a link introducing you to the financial declaration and the financial declaration form). Courts rely heavily on these documents when deciding child support and alimony. Incomplete or dishonest declarations are not only unethical, but they can also result in court sanctions and loss of credibility. As legal assistant Braxton Mounteer explained in a July 2024 blog post, “If you lie, manipulate, or omit, it will likely come to light—and the consequences can be serious.”
There’s a widespread misconception that alimony is automatic, or worse, punitive. Not true. In Utah, alimony is not guaranteed. It is awarded based on specific criteria, including the recipient spouse’s need, the payor spouse’s ability to pay, the standard of living during the marriage, and the length of the marriage. Utah Code Title 81 (Utah Domestic Relations Code), Chapter 4 (Dissolution of Marriage), Part 5 (Spousal Support) governs the factors the court must consider. It’s not about who filed first, man vs. woman, or who can tell the saddest stories. Alimony is meant to ensure fairness.
Lost your job? Facing an unexpected illness or reduction in income? That doesn’t mean your alimony obligation automatically changes. A modification requires a substantial and material change in circumstances—and the burden of proof is high. Courts want to avoid gamesmanship, such as quitting a job or changing careers to avoid support obligations. Even legitimate unemployment might not be enough unless the court is convinced the change is involuntary, permanent, and significant.
Prenuptial agreements can preempt some of the most contentious financial disputes in divorce—but only if they’re well-drafted, lawfully executed, and not fundamentally unfair. A prenuptial agreement signed under duress or without full financial disclosure may be unenforceable. Your prenup must comply with the Utah Uniform Premarital Agreement Act and be grounded in equity, transparency, and consent.
Despite the marketing hype from many firms, prenups are not a one-size-fits-all solution. They make more sense for older people contemplating marriage or remarriage, those who have been previously divorced, or those with high net worth. But with rare, particular exception, I advise against them for young couples marrying for the first time.
Whether it’s underreporting income, fraudulently transferring money to a friend or relative, or taking a temporary “pay cut,” attempts to manipulate your financial picture during divorce rarely succeed—and often backfire. Utah courts can and will impute income, vacate agreements, and impose penalties when deception is discovered. Transparency is not optional.
It’s common for parties to accuse each other of seeking custody or avoiding custody for financial gain. The child custody award affects the alimony award, and vice versa. Some parties (and at times even courts) try to use the child support award as a way to disguise alimony. This occurs when a child support obligation is inflated well beyond the statutory formula or when one parent is awarded more overnights with the children purely to maximize or minimize support payments. Courts are supposed to base child support on custody awards in the children’s best interest—not to benefit a parent financially, not as a workaround to award alimony where it would otherwise be unwarranted. If you care about your children and your financial future, make choices that reflect both, and resist the temptation to play games with custody and child/spousal support.
Whether or not you’re planning to file immediately, it’s smart to prepare early. That means gathering financial records, understanding your rights, and getting legal advice based upon your particular circumstances. Preparation is not paranoia or predatory—it’s prudent. The people who fare best in divorce are not the angriest or most aggressive, but those who are informed, organized, fair-minded, and clear-eyed about both the law and their goals.
With the right preparation, a realistic understanding of how Utah law works, and a reasonable (not a panicked or greedy) mindset, you can avoid costly mistakes, protect your rights, and position yourself for a better future.
Black and white, plain and simple. We really mean that here at Utah Family Law, LC. What you normally hear about divorce and family law is all over the map–even when you hear it from lawyers.
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